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So, to start you got these 2 equations...
9x+6y=3
−3x+y=14
Let's call equation 1 A and equation 2 B. So...
9x+6y=3: A
−3x+y=14: B
So to start substituting, you first take B because it has the lowest number of 'y's...
−3x+y=14 B
9x+6y=3 A
Equation B has the lowest number of y.
Now, you take equation B and you twist and turn it to make the y in the equation the main letter. Like so...
−3x+y=14 | This is your starting equation
y=14+3x | you move over the '−3x' to the other side of the '=' sign. Since it was a 'negative' number before, going over to the other side makes '−3x' a positive number, '3x'.
y=14+3x | now 'y' is the main letter.
Now you have this, you get your other equation (equation A) and you 'combine' it with your new equation B. Like so...
9x+6y=3: A
y=14+3x: NEW B
You substitute your NEW B into A...
9x+6(14+3x)=3 | In the NEW B, it says the y= 'that'. Therefore, you can make the y in A (6y) also equal 'that'.
Now you just have to do some switch-a-roos and stuff to get your answers: x = something and y = something, like this...
9x+6(14+3x)=3 | what you got now
9x+84+18x=3 | expanded the brackets
27x+84=3 | added the similar numbers
27x=3−84 | moved 84 to the other side
27x=−81
x=−8127 | moved 27 to the other side.
x=−3 | your first answer.
Now...
−3x+y=14: B | The old equation B
Since x=−3 so...
−3(−3)+y=14 | substituting x=−3
9+y=14
y=14−9 | moving 9 to the other side
y=5 | your second answer.
That's how you do it.