lim_{x to -4} (1/4x + 1/x) / (4+x) and clearly that is (-5/4)/0 at x = -4
we can let x= -4 + h, so h = x+4, where 0<|h| < < 1. This allows us to explore the effect of small variations h about x = -4
so the limit becomes
lim_{h to 0} (1/4(-4+h) + 1/(-4+h)) / (4-4 + h)
lim_{h to 0} (-1 + h/4 + 1/(-4+h)) / (h)
we can expand this part of the numerator ie
1/(-4+h) = (-1/4)/(1 - 1/4h) = - 1/4 (1 - h/4)^{-1}
The binomial expansion is
-1/4 (1 - (-1) h/4 + mathcal{O} (h^2))
-1/4 - h/16 + mathcal{O} (h^2))
so the limit is now
lim_{h to 0} (-1 + h/4 -1/4 - h/16 + mathcal{O} (h^2)) / (h)
lim_{h to 0} ( color{red}{-5/4} - (3h)/16 + mathcal{O} (h^2)) / (color{red}{h})
IOW:
if h < 0, ie we are to the left of x = -4, the limit is oo
if h > 0, ie we are to right of x = -4, the limit is -oo