To start, we need to see that the #3+x# term is sitting inside an absolute value sign, so we need to isolate that. We can do that by dividing by 9 on both sides:
#9|3+x|=36#
#|3+x|=4#
The absolute value sign means that whatever the value of #3+x# is on the inside, it will always be positive on the outside. For example:
#|4|=4#, #|-4|=4#
So the value of #3+x# could be positive or it could be negative. So we need to look at both cases. Let's do the positive first:
#3+x=4#
#x=1#
Now the negative:
#-(3+x)=4#
#-3-x=4#
#-x=7#
#x=-7#